21 year old dating a 31 year old
If all your dates are 10 years younger than you, there's maybe more going on, but if this girl does it for you, and she doesn't live with her parents ( ), go for it. Just that you don't remember the same Saturday morning cartoons (except the various Bugs Bunny shows of course). If the maturity levels are too far apart, well, you'll find out on the date. My sis at the tender age of 18 married a 35 yr old. The worst that can happen is she'll giggle and say somethin like "oh my heck! A quick question, how would you feel if the age difference was the other way round? The fact that they are divorcing has nothing to do with that (well a little bit but not pertinent to this discussion). Since you are 18 years old, you are allowed to date a woman half your age plus seven." Son looked at him and said, "Alright, Dad.You're 50, so that means you can date a woman who is 32.When you're 25, you can date a 19-and-a-half-year-old.So there you are in the working world for the last three years, and now you can date sophomores in college. You have been out in the business world for eight years, and you want to be dating a girl fresh out of college?So the ripe old age of 14 -- the age when you still have pimples, are as insecure as can be and are unlikely to get anything more than a kiss from a woman your own age -- is the only time when you can enjoy dating a woman your own age? Add seven to that, so you can date a 12-year-old -- an older woman"?What about if your 10-year-old looks at you and says, "I'm ready to date, Dad"? There is so much a 12-year-old can teach a 10-year-old -- advanced coloring, advanced texting, and so many other important life skills. You're 20 years old and, under this rule, you can date a 17-year-old. There you are in college, and you get to go back to high school again to find a girlfriend.
You might learn something instead of always being the guy who has to teach.
Now you're dating someone 11 years younger than you. Wow, at 70, the 42-year-olds are probably some of your daughter's friends from high school who grew up hanging out at your house and who have now gone through divorces. When women date younger men, they are called "cougars," and people say they are messing around with younger guys.
Your friends are going to be really impressed that you can date a younger woman. She's been around the block a bit, but she's still not a luscious, incredible woman over the age of 30 yet. So at 46, you finally get to have incredible sex with a beautiful, mature woman -- but you have to wait 46 years to do it, according to this urban legend. That makes sense, considering the fact that an 18-year age difference is something to which you should really be accustomed. So finally, after all these years, you can actually date the kids you knew when they were kids. That's exactly what women are looking for at that age. Here they are, still looking great, young and fantastic, and there you are with your skin sagging everywhere. There is a negative connotation to a woman dating a younger man. Maybe try dating people who are within seven years of your age -- on either side.
On the other hand, a difference that large and both of you being relatively young..could definately cause relationship problems.
In my experience women change drastically around age 22-25. This was a mistake and we really only went out once or twice.