Dating a guy who doesnt want to settle down
It seems like a good excuse, but in fact in every silo you uncover, all you're going to find is a man who didn't care enough to call.
Remember men are never to busy to get what they want.” ― Greg Behrendt “I wondered what happened when you offered yourself to someone, and they opened you, only to discover you were not the gift they expected and they had to smile and nod and say thank you all the same.” ― Jodi Picoult, “Well?
Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home.
Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious.
If you have been in several situations like this, you might start to wonder if it’s you, if you’re doing something wrong.
But then how can that be when all these other guys, the ones you don’t want, are desperate to date you?
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